The Words From Mel Robbins That Changed My Life

One of my favorite female entrepreneurs to follow online is Mel Robbins. A recent video she shared on LinkedIn and TikTok changed my life.

She said, “When you give people the space to be who they are and let go of your expectations, life gets a whole lot easier.”

Gosh.

Why is this so hard to do? Carrying expectations in my professional word for communication style, honor, character, and deliverability, feels like a constant battle.

As I expand my client book and continue to work with new people, I’m constantly reminded of this.

When I put pressure on myself or my clients to respond or engage in a certain way that is incompatible with who they are, it causes friction. I find myself asking, “Why do THEY… xyz” When I could (should) turn my thinking around and focus instead on myself and what I can control.

The other important lesson here I believe is that when people show you who they are, believe them. Don’t make excuses for them and do not tolerate clients who are disrespectful of your time or drain your energy. Easier said than done, right? ;)

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